My Timing Is Perfect

Digitization is such a wonderful means to connect with the ones far and feel the warmth of being near.  It sure is a blessing. However, not at the cost of the time with a loved one sitting right next to you. Or is that person to be treated afar rather than to be a near and dear one? Sitting next to your loved one but looking into a text.  Sitting next to your friend but watching TV. Sitting next to your child but laughing at a status post on FB. Sitting next to your guest who has entered home but listening to music! Well these are all Movie time or tv time or entertainment time, but never family time. Smiling conversation and pleasant patient responses helps bond irrespective of age. What is the rush? Which train of death are we running behind to give that rush into things that are near than the ones that are far? Near your beach, enjoy the waves.... Near your spouse, look into their eyes to have a quality conversation.. Near your child, drop everything and never stop to corre...

There have been decades of wisdom. There have decades of knowledge, that I have gained. How many have I put to use? That sure is a biggest question mark. Of all these many years of advices and the different observations of people around me, I must admit I still have the habit of blaming. People who have known me for decades together not just probably the last one decade, have known the great deal of challenges that I have faced from my childhood. All the these people would tell about how I have risen over every situation brave and stronger. Despite all these challenges that I have faced and raised much Above The Horizon, I still have had expectations like any other. When such expectations, called basics,  also called logical way of working in my dictionary, doesn't work for me, I too get into a blaming mode. Well considering I have understood this aspect very clearly atleast now, I think it is time to change every such instance into an opportunity. It sounds easy but only a ...

Change is inevitable is something i keep hearing. Do you agree to that statement?? Well, to my observation around me, there is nothing changing in nature unless we humans land up changing it. Or is it i am over observing it? Sun seems to be fine ever since i was born, and so are the seasons with minor changes in them - thanks to our interventions. Sometimes i wonder why we are asked to change. I just so realized we are not in sync with nature anymore and hence we need to change, to get back to our own selves. Well the inevitable changes around us are purely physical in nature. Its hard to explain to ones who have not understood the movement of energy around them or never allowed themselves to feel so. We all can feel it, we just need to tune into it.  The question is am i ready to change? Am i ready to face the transformation to a blissful experience of life? Am i ready to understand beyond all the fancy and fantasy driven life?  While i have...