Size Does Matter!!

Funny the way human brain works.
As a child, we fear elders who would question us for whatever goes wrong. Could be parents or caretakers when we break something or do something out of the ordinary.
Not always do we get a reciprocation to our fears.

As we grow, we are built in with fear about the supernatural. If we do something which is negative in life, then god will leave and devil will rule us.

The two stages adolescent age and a new born, there is no fear of anything.

A complete man or woman., then take charge of their own life. There is lot of fear in todays world that people live with, and yet enact as though they are the tough ones in life.
But take a cool ride of life, do not bother of any others, till they have to answer someone with POWER/SIZE. SO does size really matter?


What made me write like this today?
There have been many occasions in my professional life, I have noted. People work hard and some people work smart. Purely to impress others with great designations and grades.
In this process they fail to recognize the people with actual potential.

A simple response to emails, would start work on depending on the size and depth of the person who is asking it.
I normally disagree to this.
Every stage of work life there is a factor of fear each of the humans have in a hire and fire policy. The person who puts his/her hand into the clay to mould a beautiful pot alone will know its practical situations rather than the person who stays away doing analysis of it. Such people are in the adolescent phase of work. And they will have absolutely no fear what so ever.

Because they have the craft of work in them and can manage life anytime anywhere. Life is a cycle, and basics of life does not change and are always mundane – like eating, sleeping, cleaning etc.. I keep wondering when one will realize these and ensure to perform their part of life without too many reminders.

Funny Dreamzzzzzzz

For a very long time many researchers are trying to analyze human brain and how it functions. Well, today we have some documentations, while history only left strong beliefs and is even today called tradition and blind faith.

Faith has to be felt, it cannot be explained. I rarely dream, and I ask many questions on my dreams with elders in my family. I used to be surprised with the explanations that was given to me for the dreams I had till date.

I ask where I am clueless about my dreams. I hardly dream, but when I do, I want to know the linkages.

When I am explained, I do question in all combinations. Still behind my head I register every word. And I get zapped for the kind of research that has been already done in the past. People of the olden golden days today in India are taking away the secrets with themselves. I want to understand more, I do not know how much more I can gain knowledge from them.

If you dream of someone dying = you are to hear news of a marriage in the family. One would state this is sheer stupidity, one could say if they have experienced it as – coincidence. But when such things recur – what would you call it? Faith?
It’s hard to explain, but I have had my part of dreams and its explanations.

I started my questioning on dreams, because of a person close to my heart. She gets to dream almost daily. Most of them used to reflect her inner thoughts of either fear or too much of worry about the solutions she is looking forward. I do not question her dreams, I never criticize it, but I analyze it for sure.
Because it reflects the person and their thoughts on such dreams.

Dreams are different, some reflect your inner thought. But some seek explanation of faith, which has no relevance to any inner thoughts either, but appear from nowhere to give us a hint or a message of future. That’s when I turn back to elders for their knowledge. Few of them are good to me in providing explanations and for some I am also given remedy on what needs to be done by having faith in the unknown.

Assumption is the mother of all !!!

In every walk of life there is a tiny bit of assumption all of us make. Have we ever realized if that is has worked towards or against us? Well, assumption is some sort of perception we make before we see the actual end state.

At work, I have seen making assumptions when there is a proposal towards a project plan or anything that is yet to be achieved. This is normally used to ensure there is a backup created depending on certain assumptions towards the final outcome.
At economies to scale, there is lots of assumptions for the financial state of affairs and growth patterns of a country.

In our personal life, we also make assumptions. Unless it is going to be for a positive approach; my suggestion to you is never assume things. Always ask. Get it clarified. There have been few very close people who have given me feedback; on how body language pass on more communication that the words by itself. Similarly, when we assume things (unless you are an Oscar award winner) I guess it shows out on our faces in expressions. Ensure to ask and get clarification before there is gap between any personal relationship.

Happy living is in your hands…. Take care

Men may come and men may go.. But I go on forever..

Yes, many people come in our lives and many go.. but only some steal a place in our heart.
Time heals us they say, yet I am unable to digest that it’s a year now that someone close to many of us is not around us physically.
I am sure she is there next to each of us, just the way she used to be physically far yet too close to us. And blessing us with all the goodness for us and wishing that all our good wishes to come true.

I do beleive that pure souls always wish us the best of best in our lives.