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Time to be happy is now, place to be happy is here...

Happy Diwali 2019 It is been a while that have pen down thoughts in to my blog. And wishing one and all a very happy Diwali this year. The things that made me pen down this year after very long time. Very simple thing, I have been invited for Diwali this year at my maternal side my paternal and time to spend with my in laws. Thinking on how to split the time with everybody, I ran back in my memory lane of my childhood. This thought made me pen down today. And thought about all those women who are married and who spent there time with us as children but never spend their adults time with their parents. It is 2 folded yes, I am sure each of you have a great deal of memories that you cherish every Diwali. It is festive energy and the great energy that surrounds all of us, this energy has nothing to do with religion. I have had almost all my friends come down and spend time and play together. The best part has never been shopping for clothes all the best part has been shopping f

Moments of Truth

Its sure hard to accept when the finger is pointed at us. When truth is told to us its hard to digest for sure. However broad minded one is, acceptance comes only from those whom we are not emotionally attached. Well, having said that, i am still trying to accept some truth about myself yet. Truth on how i have lost my charm, my smile, my thoughts of comparison, my own personal space, my health or even my self esteem.. and so on.. the list is grown so much that i wonder now how to accept that with ease and move on. I wonder when i became like this, for i at least had this personal space of my own which helped me enrich myself and grow to be what i want or get what i wanted. So its time i renewed myself with the truth of my current situation. Where to start and what to do with me myself is quite a challenging area to work on. For sure i know that moments of truth are words from divine that, its high time i see the change in me to see the change around me. Theoretically whil

Meaning of the word Birthday - customize it.

The meaning of the word Birthday of the pre-milenials is the day we were born and it was tought to us in school as a Red Letter day. As the milenials understand it's yes, the date of their birth and they need to be pampered with gifts and many other things like treating friends and basically creating a market around it these days.  Well, as a child until I conceived with a new life I too was under the impression birthdays are important day in one's own life. My entire perspective changed. I started to remember how my mom and my grandmother and her siblings always remembered my birthday and blessed me every year.  From the culture I hail, the child is born in the home of their maternal grandparents. It's basically joy in their hearts and an unforgettable moment to see us new born into this world in their hands...   Yes,  the moment I conceived the new life in my womb lots if new things opened up to me for many questions I had no answer for. The birth of each

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Spiritual awakening... Midnight

Tonights the night of my spiritual awakening to the next level of my souls journey. Just as the song 'silent night' rings into my ear; the night vigil or sivarathiri or tahajjud; in which ever you look into. All of them have similarity towards the sipirual awakening at middle of the night. Who ever said being awake at nights is not a good sign? Its the time when you can reflect on yourself without disturbances. Today, with the door bell ringing from milk man to maid to cable to water vendor and to constant beeps of personal handphones; there is no time better than midnight when whole world aorund you, once the internet is disconnected; is fast asleep. Each of us need time to relect on our spiritual journey of life. Prayers in my opinion used to be so; till probably our grandparents days. Since today prayers are; either fear based or a demand of materialistic things. Lets use the paceful time of the night to work on ourselves. Firstly, many thanks to all of y

ADHD and us all!

The new talk of the world, is about todays kids and how something is always a deficient in them. Different terminologies are been developed and created as a platform for therapies. As i keep reading and hearing more on these lines of comparison to a generalized version of development; loads of doubts and questions arise on my head. One such topic i would like to pen down here is ADHD. Its basically Attention Deficit and Hyperactive Disorder.  Currently AI revolution - Well, to understand this in depth what i have concluded is we all posses this quality. So why tag these poor kids who are not given the vastness of learning from mother nature till age of 7? They are directly expected to have table manners, social etiquette and lots more of decorum by they are age of 3. What more to add they are expected to work like machines or robots only based on instructions. Industrial revolution - This expected every one to work like machines. Line control and work on machines, they nev