Assumption is the mother of all !!!



In every walk of life there is a tiny bit of assumption all of us make. Have we ever realized if that is has worked towards or against us? Well, assumption is some sort of perception we make before we see the actual end state.

At work, I have seen making assumptions when there is a proposal towards a project plan or anything that is yet to be achieved. This is normally used to ensure there is a backup created depending on certain assumptions towards the final outcome.
At economies to scale, there is lots of assumptions for the financial state of affairs and growth patterns of a country.

In our personal life, we also make assumptions. Unless it is going to be for a positive approach; my suggestion to you is never assume things. Always ask. Get it clarified. There have been few very close people who have given me feedback; on how body language pass on more communication that the words by itself. Similarly, when we assume things (unless you are an Oscar award winner) I guess it shows out on our faces in expressions. Ensure to ask and get clarification before there is gap between any personal relationship.

Happy living is in your hands…. Take care

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Mathangi said…
Beautifully written :) Assumptions can be very dangerous to our ownselves than others...Tx for the reminder :)
November 15, 2011 at 8:53 PM
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